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Original Article in The JNS:

They got the billing right. The headliner of a charitable evening in Midtown Manhattan on Oct. 17 featured 30-plus Israel Defense Forces’ soldiers and officers—donned in uniforms and berets representing various military branches and units—on hand for “A Night of Heroes: A Spectacular Celebration of Israel and the IDF at 70.”

The event, sponsored by the Friends of the Israel Defense Forces (FIDF) National New York Gala Dinner and held at the New York Hilton Midtown for a crowd of 1,200, raised more than $32 million to support the well-being of and educational programs for Israel Defense Forces soldiers.

Capt. Amir Guttman, the naval attaché, came to New York from Washington, where he represents the IDF to the Pentagon and the Coast Guard. He was not permitted to disclose details of his job or his exact place of residence. Cpl. Idan Bakshi of the IDF musical ensemble was pleased to represent Israel and the IDF, and was enjoying his first trip to New York. “It is nice to know that people chutz l’aretz [‘outside of Israel’] value what we do,” he said.


An overview of the FIDF National New York Gala Dinner at the New York Hilton Midtown on Oct. 17, 2018. Credit: Shahar Azran.

Sgt. Eden Hadassi from Emek Yizrael serves in the Maglan unit as an instructor of special equipment. She movingly told JNS of her great appreciation for the Friends of the IDF. Thanks to them, she attended Camp Ramah in Ojai, Calif., when she was 12 years old, as part of the Legacy/Moreshet program.

“My oldest brother was killed in the Second Lebanon War when I was 10, and I was invited to go to camp with others in the same situation as me,” she related.

Hadassi recently returned from serving as a counselor on a trip to San Francisco for children who lost a sibling while serving in the IDF. “I wanted to be there 24/7 for those kids. I can understand them.” She noted that “FIDF does so much for us—for wounded soldiers, lone soldiers and more. FIDF donated a synagogue building and classrooms, and an excellent gym on my base. And there is a special memorial room with a picture of my brother and information about him.”

Honored guests included a staff sergeant and paramedic who had been involved with treating wounded Syrian civilians along the border with Israel as part of the IDF’s “Operation Good Neighbor.” Maj. Or Ben-Yehuda, who served in the Caracal Battalion—one of the only co-ed military units in the world—and her mother, Professor Dina Ben-Yehuda, shared their story of heroism passing on from generation to generation. Attendees viewed moving videos of Dr. Ben-Yehuda, who served in the IDF during the 1973 Yom Kippur War, and Or, who in 2014 single-handedly fought off a group of terrorists and was awarded for her courageous actions.

Or, who lives in Kiryat Ono, spoke with JNS about how she has personally experienced FIDF’s impact. “I visited a lone soldier in my company in his apartment. It was cold; there was no closets, no kitchen stuff. I called the FIDF and when I came again, it was all there!”

She further reports, “When I was wounded at the Egyptian borer and lingered in the hospital, FIDF gave me a box with all the things a soldier could need: shampoo, food, etc. I was most proud of a letter inside from a couple who didn’t even know me. They said, ‘We appreciate what you do!”

Distinguished guests included Israel’s Ambassador to the United Nations Ambassador Danny Danon; Consul General of Israel in New York Dani Dayan; Israel Defense and Armed Forces Attaché to the United States Maj. Gen. Michael Edelstein; FIDF acting chairman Peter Weintraub; FIDF chairman emeritus Arthur Stark; FIDF acting president Robert Cohen; FIDF national director and CEO Maj.-Gen. (Res.) Meir Klifi-Amir and his wife, Brig.-Gen. (Res.) Gila Klifi-Amir; radio personality and voice over artist Valerie Smaldone, who presided as master of ceremonies; and FIDF tri-state executive director Galit Brichta.

On a lighter note, Israeli singer and actress Shiri Maimon, who recently starred as Roxie in “Chicago” on Broadway, performed several Hebrew and English songs.

‘Strong IDF, strong bond between Israel and America’

Highlighting the unique cooperation between the United States and Israel, Brig.-Gen. Tal Kelman, head of the Strategic Division of the IDF Planning Directorate and former Chief of Staff in the Israeli Air Force (IAF), discussed working together with U.S. Air Force soldiers during the Juniper Cobra joint military exercise earlier this year. He was joined on stage by Cpt. Or, the first female soldier to command a Patriot Battery, who recently employed an advanced air-defense system to shoot down the Syrian airplane and drone that invaded Israeli airspace this past July.

“Since its birth 70 years ago, Israel has continuously fought for its right to live as a free country in the Middle East. A true ‘Start-up Nation,’ Israel not only survives but thrives, with accomplishments and innovations that greatly contribute not only to her own citizens, but also to the rest of the world,” said Klifi-Amir. “The success of the State of Israel is rooted in many factors—most importantly, resting on two pillars: a strong IDF—one of the best militaries in the world, with the highest moral and ethics—and the strong bond between Israel and the great United States of America.

“Standing together is the most powerful way to continue to thrive, flourish and face the challenges yet to come,” she continued. “We were honored to have so many highly distinguished guests join us at this momentous annual gala, as we celebrated 70 years of Israel and saluted the heroes of the IDF.”

IDF Chief of the General Staff Lt. Gen. Gadi Eizenkot was scheduled to speak at the event, but had to return to Israel due to recent security developments. “He was on his way from Washington to New York at 9:30 p.m. when he was called back by the Prime Minister’s Office,” said Weintraub. “We therefore need to show solidarity and support or the IDF. We can’t forget the thousands on the ground protecting every inch of Israel, as we speak.

“The miracle called Israel has continued to exist as a strong and thriving country over the past 70 years, and it will continue to exist thanks to the heroic soldiers of the IDF, who put their lives on the line every day to defend the home of the Jewish nation,” he said. “I am proud to chair this extraordinary event and salute Israel’s soldiers for their countless sacrifices, historic victories and commitment to our people.”

Notable among the donations was a $5 million Planned Giving gift. Or Lachayal pledged $2.5 million; FIDF national vice president Marc Perlman pledged $1.6 million; Nefesh B’Nefesh pledged $1.3 million; FIDF Young Leadership New York pledged $1.2 million; FIDF national board member and New York Real Estate Division chairman emeritus Ofer Yardeni pledged $1 million on behalf of FIDF New York Real Estate; Brothers for Life pledged $1 million; Genesis Philanthropy Group pledged $700,000; and the Iranian American Jewish Federation pledged $550,000. Weintraub’s granddaughter pledged $180 for each of his 14 grandchildren.

Funds raised at the gala will provide much-needed and well-deserved services such as academic scholarships to combat veterans; financial assistance for soldiers in-need; support for “lone soldiers” throughout their service and upon release; crucial aid for wounded veterans and the families of fallen soldiers; weeks of rest and recuperation for entire IDF units; as well as educational, cultural and recreational facilities for all soldiers.

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Original Article in The JNS:

 When Jay Feinberg learned in 1991 that he had leukemia, he was told that he needed a bone-marrow transplant to survive. “My doctor said, ‘You will never find a match. Make your bucket list now.’ ”

Feinberg, 22 at the time, was in shock and disbelief. “When I asked why, he said “because you are Jewish, and the best chances of a match are people with the same genetic background.” There were no family members who were potential matches, and at the time, Jews were not well-represented among potential donors.

“I wasn’t prepared to give up,” he said. Feinberg, his family and their circle of friends were fighters. “I found a donor, the last one tested after four years!”

Feinberg survived the harrowing journey, remains in good health, and has devoted his life to helping create “The Gift of Life Marrow Registry,” which seeks to educate people about blood cancers, and to increase the numbers of Jews and people in general around the world to bone-marrow registries. By 1995, more than 60,000 people had been tested. Currently, 310,833 people are registered donors; 15,409 matches have been made; and to date, some 3,321 transplants have been facilitated.

Feinberg, who serves as president and CEO of Gift of Life, reports that “we went from less than a 5 percent chance of a match to a 75 percent chance of a match for Jewish patients.”

The Oct. 10 Gift of Life Gala raised $9.5 million, and honored Dr. Miriam and Sheldon Adelson with the Partners for Life Award. It was an emotional affair, featuring a swab table, and moving stories of donors and recipients. To mark the gala, Gift of Life’s orange brand color lit the peak of the Empire State Building and Renaissance Clock in Times Square on Wednesday night, while the Helmsley Building at 230 Park Avenue glowed orange on Tuesday.


Gift of Life Marrow Registry founder and CEO Jay Feinberg (left) with Gift of Life Marrow Registry Partners for Life Award honorees Dr. Miriam and Sheldon Adelson. Credit: David Nicholas Photography.

Guests were greeted by Gift of Life staff member Lindsay Katz and the table with swab kits. She explained the simple directions of how to join the registry by downloading SwabApp, completing a few forms and a cheek swab. “When I was 10, my 11-year-old cousin went through this and responded to medicine. I have been involved with Gift of Life ever since,” she said.

Isaac Zablocki, senior director of film programs and the Israel Film Center at the Marlene Meyerson JCC Manhattan, attended with his wife, Aviva, to witness his 6-year-old nephew, Idan, as he met his donor, Alex, for the first time. “I am prepared with tissues,” revealed Aviva Zablocki during the cocktail reception.

Giant screens in the orange-decorated room in Cipriani, the famed restaurant in the equally famous Bowery Building (built in 1921), displayed stories of donors and recipients including: “Peter met his recipient Etty at a Taglit Birthright convention in Tel Aviv,” and “David met his recipient Missy at Steps for Life 5K in South Florida.”

Each speaker movingly described his or her connection to Gift of Life, often quoting the well-known passage in the Talmud that states “he who saves a single life, it is as if he has saved an entire world.”


The Empire State Building in New York City displays the Gift of Life Marrow registry colors on Wednesday night, Oct. 10, 2018. Credit: Andrew Tess.

Dr. Miriam Adelson first learned this verse as a student in Haifa and recited it in Hebrew. “I am an emergency-room doctor, and we save lives every day. With just a swab, we can all save lives!” Her husband, Sheldon Adelson, echoed, “I have been in business for 73 years, but I can’t think of anything more important than saving a life. When I look at all of the philanthropic gifts that we make, I can’t see anything more important than the gift of life.”

While the crowd was inspired by the Adelsons’ commitment and philanthropic generosity, the true heroes of the evening were the donors and recipients. Idan, of New York City, who battled the potentially fatal immune deficiency Hyper IgM Syndrome (Hyper IgM), met his stem-cell donor, 22-year-old Alex Weiss, a New York financial analyst originally from Fort Lauderdale, Fla.

Weiss joined Gift of Life during a Birthright Israel trip. “The process has helped me realize how precious life is and how incredibly important it is to do mitzvot for others,” said Weiss upon meeting Zablocki. “I am so excited to meet my recipient, Idan. To my new little buddy, we will always be connected through DNA, and you will be always be connected through my heart.”

Weiss presented Zablocki with a jersey from University of Michigan, his alma mater, and a teddy bear. He also made a donation to Gift of Life.

‘We could do a 100 percent … ”

Psychologist Jon E. Perlman, 69, received his diagnosis just before Passover, referring to it as “the 11th plague.” Perlman, who battled Acute Myeloid Leukemia, met his stem-cell donor, Seth Benzell, 27, of Allston, Mass., a research associate at the Massachusetts Institute for Technology’s Initiative on the Digital Economy. The two noted living just 20 minutes from each other in Massachusetts. Benzell also joined Gift of Life during a Birthright trip.


Gift of Life Marrow registry donor Seth Benzell of Allston, Mass. (left) and recipient Jon Perlman of Sudbury, Mass. Credit: David Nicholas Photography.

The Adelson Family Foundation has enabled thousands of new donors to join the registry through Birthright Israel, resulting in more than 1,600 potential matches that have led to 209 transplants so far. Thomas Stern, chairman of the board of the Birthright Israel Foundation, noted that Benzell is “No. 200”—the 200th Birthright participant out of 214 who have thus far donated marrow to people with blood cancer.

“We will do 25,000 swabs this year out of our 50,000 participants. We could do 100 percent if we had an extra $1.5 million annually,” declared Stern.

Gift of Life’s expansion plans include relocating to a new larger headquarters in Boca Raton, Fla. The new offices will include an on-premises stem-cell collection center. The organization recently opened an office in Jerusalem to support its collaboration with Birthright Israel. Efforts also continue to expand the registry for currently underrepresented populations.

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Original Article in Chabad.org:

The sensory-friendly Sukkot celebration enabled Friendship Circle participants and members of the larger community to come together for the Sukkot event.

Silverstein Kramer relates that she helped start the Chicago Friendship Circle, then called Friendship Circle, as soon as she returned to Milwaukee eight years ago, and “we haven’t stopped since.” She is impressed at how well the Steins listen to parental concerns and input. She is especially pleased that the adult division is “quite active.”

And she loved this year’s sensory-friendly sukkah event. “It was so different from anything we’ve had before. It was amazing, fun, joyous, all-inclusive—with older and younger participants and caregivers and parents.” She described a disco ball hung at eye level, the many different colors and the headphones. “It makes a lot of sense. Some people can’t handle a lot of noise, big crowds and strangers. It was a fantastic idea. I am all for doing it again!”

The Steins were pleased as well. “It was incredible to see people with all abilities coming together and feeling like they had a place … Everybody felt included and had a great time.” Given the number of special days on the Jewish calendar, the Steins and the headphone company are likely to find ways to continue their wonderful partnership.

Sukkah guests could enjoy the party from outside on the street or inside the Lubavitch House.

Sukkah guests could enjoy the party from outside on the street or inside the Lubavitch House.

“When I called the headphone company, they said they never thought of the special-education aspect. I think it is a game-changer for them; they may have found a new market.” Stein rented 40 sets of headphones that light up in a range of colors.

“When I called the headphone company, they said they never thought of the special-education aspect. I think it is a game-changer for them; they may have found a new market.” Stein rented 40 sets of headphones that light up in a range of colors.

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Original Article in The Jerusalem Post:

To the astute observer, there are probably more references to the late, great Arthur Ashe throughout the grounds of the USTA Billie Jean King National Tennis Center, home of the US Open, than to Rafael Nadal, Andy Murray, Roger Federer and Novak Djokovic combined. A walk through the grounds of the US Open pays tribute to Ashe in many ways.

There is a plaque honoring Ashe near the South Gate at the Court of Champions, Arthur Ashe Commemorative Gardens, the 24,000-seat Ashe Stadium, a display of mounted photographs of Ashe by Time and Life photographer John Zimmerman, and the seven-minute ’68 Ashe VR (virtual reality) Experience.

The 2018 US Open celebrates Ashe the man, on the 50th anniversary of his US Open victory in 1968.

Arthur Ashe was the first black player selected to the United States Davis Cup team, and he was the only African-American man to win three Grand Slam events – Wimbledon, the US Open and the Australian Open. But Ashe was so much more than an accomplished tennis player. He was a humanitarian who spoke out against injustice and preached tolerance and understanding, a spokesman for such public health concerns as HIV/ AIDS and heart disease, an advocate of sports programs for the underserved, a life-long learner, an US Army lieutenant, and, by some accounts, a philosemite who was profoundly influenced by many Jews.

Raymond Arsenault, the author of a new authoritative, comprehensive 767-page biography, Arthur Ashe: A Life recently spoke with the Magazine about the influence of Jewish people and history on Ashe. Ashe’s father, a jack of all trades, worked “as a chauffeur, butler and handyman for Charles Gregory, one of Richmond’s most prominent Jewish merchants.” One day, while dropping off Mr. Gregory’s laundry, he struck up a conversation with Mattie Cordell Cunningham.

Several months later, they were married, and soon after, became parents to Arthur, and five years later, to his brother, Johnnie.

Ashe was born in 1943 and grew up in Richmond, Virginia, in the segregated South. When he was six, his mother died and Ashe and Johnnie were raised by their father, who worked as a handyman and caretaker for Richmond’s recreation department. The Ashes lived in the caretaker’s cottage in the grounds of 18-acre Blacks-only Brookfield Park, which had baseball fields, basketball courts, a pool and four tennis courts. Ashe began playing tennis at age seven and showed promise.

Ron Charity, a tennis coach and at the time the best black tennis player in Richmond, began working with Ashe and entering him in local tournaments. Ashe won the National Junior Indoor tennis title – the first for an African-American. He began attending UCLA in 1963 on a tennis scholarship. He was also a member of ROTC (Reserve Officers’ Training Corps), which offered tuition assistance in exchange for active military service upon graduation. He joined the US Army in 1966 and became a second lieutenant and eventually a first lieutenant, prior to his discharge in 1969.

A recent USA Today article by sportswriter Sandra Harwitt, who is also author of The Greatest Jewish Tennis Players of All Times, notes that Arthur’s brother, Johnnie, volunteered for a second tour of duty in Vietnam, knowing that two brothers couldn’t see active duty in a war zone at the same time, thereby keeping Arthur on the tennis court. This allowed Ashe to play in and ultimately win the 1968 US Open. Since Ashe was still an amateur at the time and because of his status as an active Army lieutenant, he was unable to accept the $14,000 prize money. The money ended up going to runner-up Tom Okker of the Netherlands, but, as Arsenault notes, an anonymous donor offered Ashe 100 shares of General Motors stock, which he was ultimately allowed to accept.

AT THE ’68 Ashe Virtual Reality exhibit at this year’s US Open, Ashe speaks about the year 1968, and mentions the deaths of both Martin Luther King Jr. and Robert F. Kennedy as well as the 1968 Summer Olympics in Mexico City, where two US athletes bowed their heads and raised fists as a salute to the Black Power movement during the playing of the “Star Spangled Banner” (both were subsequently thrown off the Olympic team). These events served as an important impetus for his commitment to and involvement in larger issues of the day.

Mary, a US Open volunteer at the virtual reality exhibit, notes that she “tries hard not to influence people’s experience” as people watch the presentation, but reports that several African-American visitors have shared stories of personal connection with Ashe.

“One playfully shared a story of how Ashe flirted with her when he was 14 and she was 16. Another reported that her cousin is married to Ashe’s brother.”

Another visitor, Tracy Nabaldian of Weston, Connecticut, found the show to be “really cool,” but wishes it was longer.

“It did a neat job in seven minutes of covering his rise and how he found his voice.” She is pleased that a longer documentary about Ashe will premier in 2019.

Ashe’s tennis accomplishments include winning the Davis Cup for the US in 1968 and 1969 and winning the Wimbledon singles title in 1975. Off the court, Ashe got married to artist and photographer Jeanne Moutoussamy in 1977. Ashe began experiencing health problems in 1971 when he suffered a heart attack in July while holding a tennis clinic in New York. In 1979, he underwent a quadruple bypass operation, and in 1983 underwent a second heart surgery.

In 1988, when Ashe was experiencing paralysis in his right arm, it was discovered that he had taxoplasmosis, commonly found in people infected with HIV. It is believed he contracted the virus from blood transfusions from his second heart surgery. Ashe served as national campaign chairman for the American Heart Association and was a member of the National Heart, Lung and Blood Advisory Council.

Ashe was an active civil rights supporter. He was a member of a delegation of 31 African-Americans who visited South Africa. In 1985, he was arrested outside the South African Embassy in Washington during an anti-apartheid rally. He was arrested again in 1992 outside the White House for protesting a crackdown on Haitian refugees. Ashe died in 1993 from AIDS-related pneumonia at the age of 49.

Ashe was a prolific writer, penning books about tennis, basketball and other sports, and several memoirs.

In his 1993 New York Times best-selling book, Days of Grace, he writes about his experience with Jewish people and the Jewish community. He was bothered at the time by the decline in relations between Jews and Blacks in Brooklyn.

“Few aspects of race relations in America have disturbed me as much as the enmity in certain quarters between Blacks and Jews. The entire climate of Black-Jewish relations has become stormy,” Ashe said.

This was in contrast to the very positive experience he had growing up around Jews in Richmond, Virginia.

“I have no reason to feel anything but affection and respect for Jews as a people in the United States. A long time ago I came to the personal realization that all of the people who have helped me become a success in life, a disproportionately large percentage of them have been Jews. And as far as I know, I never sought them out to ask their help. They took the initiative, and continue to do so. Whether or not they are assuaging guilty feelings is, to me, irrelevant.”

Ashe notes, “When I was growing up in Richmond, Jews occupied a prominent and favored place in my life, and in my father’s life. Before and after he found his main job with the Department of Recreation of the City of Richmond, my father worked for a number of wealthy Richmond Jews.” He goes on to list the various Jews who owned department stores and other stores and were “fair and honorable.”

Ashe also observed that “even great wealth did not save the Jews of Richmond from [being subjected to bigotry.” He “became aware of Jews in a more complex way on the tennis team at UCLA,” and writes about how Jews see themselves in American culture. He concludes, “When black demagogues make scapegoats of Jews, we must resist it for what it is; further evidence of the self-hatred and the intellectual and spiritual confusion that racism breeds.”

Arsenault recalls coming across Ashe’s thoughts about the Jews in the research for his book, playfully noting, “I mentioned it, but don’t know if it made it to the cutting room floor!” He notes that more than 200 pages were cut out of the book.

“I was talking about his early encounters with whites. There was one store in Jackson Ward (a section of Richmond, Virginia) and he knows the owner, who was Jewish. His father knew the Schillers, who were Jewish, and the owners of the big department stores, who were Jewish. I think later his sensibility was very philosemitic. He would make references to the Holocaust.

He just had a great sympathy, I think for some of the commonalities of African-Americans and Jews in terms of being outsiders and having to deal with stereotypes, so he often went out of his way to mention the same positive things about Jews and I think it was just obvious and striking to me that he did have that sensibility.”

Arsenault is fairly certain Ashe never went to Israel.

“The closest was Egypt. That’s when he realized in 1980 that he had to retire. He was in Cairo and went out for a run near the big pyramids and all of the sudden you could see he had horrible angina.

He and [wife] Jeanne had a friend, Doug Stein, who was a Long Island doctor who was with them on the trip, basically told him you have to go home and get this taken care of. He did not go straight back though – they went to Amsterdam, and the art museums, then they went back, and they said you are not playing serious tennis again… so in April of 1980, he announced his retirement. I don’t think he ever went to Israel.”

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